HOW TO BE AN AWESOME DUDE  AND BE THE FAVORITES OF THE GIRLS

Have you ever met a Dude who is not conventionally handsome, but always  have girls nearby who love to be having him around ?

This Dude seems to be the Favorite of the Girls...

His Personality is the reason why these girls are attracted to him, it draws them to him like Honey attracting Bees buzzing around it.

How his personality creates this strong attraction and it's beyond a mere looks... 

In this post I will tell you what is behind his personality and hopefully it will inspire you... It's simple really ....... 💕

Girls adore well mannered Dude,  who spread positive energy, kind,  supportive and never talk harshly. Dudes with integrity.  He respect the Girls and as a Gentleman, he thought that the girls deserve to be treated nicely. However, when he needs to be firmed somehow, he does it in a nice way

He is not only communicating with the Girls but he tries to understand what's important to them and why and will respect it accordingly. He also respect boundaries that have been set up by the girls and it will make them feel comfortable around him.

Girls are creatures who love to talk. Therefore, they love to have Dudes who genuinely listens to them

It's not only as good listener but as an active listener  as well where Dudes can give valued remarks that will inspire or provide solutions to the Girl's issues.

Why Girls love Dudes who are knowledgable and broad minded ? Girls adores Dudes whom they can  have great conversations with. Someone who will be able to cover many interesting topics and make the conversation far from boring. In addition to that a Broad minded Dudes are not Judgmental type of person and it makes the Girls comfortable around them.

It will be a perfect combo if Dudes are not only knowledgeable but also have a great Sense of Humour. Girls love this. Humor will always sparks some fun, an ice breaking and get rid of awkward moments during conversations.

It's the first impression kind of thing.... before everything else, the way Dudes present themselves to the world is important. AT LEAST they should be taking care of their Grooming and Hygiene. If they have Great sense of Style it will be perfect. Girls love Dudes who smells great too.... so dab a bit of Men Fragrance. Remember, NOT TOO MUCH... just a bit, to be more impactful and give a mystery vibes to your present.

So Dudes, when you ready to be popular amongst Girls, be a mature person, treats the Girls with respect. There will be moments when some Girls are obsessed with you. You can't avoid this situation when you are popular amongst Girls. And it can be annoying sometimes. But you have to be ready. Always be a cool headed Dudes.  Be firmed but always respect and treat them nicely. 

CIAO and let me know if you need assistances

IG : @meand_mylooks

Girlfriend to Dudes who want to feel, look and act their best

April 2024

 

BLACK TIE

Whenever we received invitation to attend special events, such as Wedding, Special Gallery opening, Charity Gala Dinner or similar, we should see what is the DRESS CODE for these events. It's important to note the respective Dress Code and follow the requested attire for the events as to show our respect to the Host and other guests who attend the events.

BLACK TIE is one of the Dress Codes, designated for Formal Events, that requires Formal Attire, namely TUXEDO or FORMAL DARK SUITS 

For the first timer to such an events, I would like to share some information on what to wear to comply with the BLACK TIE Dress Code.

When you know what to wear, you will be more Confidence in the way you carry yourself and you will be at ease to mingle with the other guests during the events. 

Cool, Calm and Collected. Know when to talk and have good subjects to start a conversation, yet be a good listeners too.

With this attitude, am sure you gonna be fine and for the next black tie events, you will be a Pro for Black Tie events...

DM me for any questions..

Putri Hidayat

IG : @meand_mylooks GIRLFRIEND

Friend to Dudes who want to look, fee and act their best 

Jakarta, February 2024

 

Personal Style

If you ask me why I love being a Personal Stylist, it is because I work with people who wants to improve themselves..... To present the best version of themselves by expressing themselves in the way they dressed up.

It makes me happy when they succeeds in elevating their looks and along with that they achieved their goals in their Professional as well as in their Personal Life

It all starts with Discovering our Personal Style. Things to do in the process of discovering  personal style are as follows  :

• To select the right cut, fabric, texture and length that best complients your body shape
• Taking our lifestyle into considerations
• Using Style as a primary tool for Self Expression

I believe you are aware that every individual is Unique. If we embrace our uniqueness in our Style,  we will feel most comfortable with this style, therefore we will be more Confidence in the way we carry ourselves. This style will let our personality shines and this style is our Personal Style

Confidence is important factor when we are presenting the best of ourselves to the World.

The next stage is to check your Wardrobe. 

Cluttered wardrobe will stress you out and confuse you when it comes to styling your outfit. 

Decluttering and organizing our wardrobe is crucial in the process of developing our Personal Style.

An Ideal Wardrobe should be neat, effective and manageable wardrobe that works for us.

As Personal Stylist this is one my jobs to assist you creates your dream wardrobe that suits you and support your newly found Personal Style.

My Motto is SLOW FASHION, meaning we will re-create your wardrobe by using clothing items from your existing wardrobe. 

LESS CONSUMING - Less shopping for new Clothing items

MORE CREATIVE in using Styling Technique to create compelling looks using your existing clothing items

Choosing Only Clothing Items that will support your Discovered Personal Style

Discard Clothing items that is no longer relevant with your Personal Style 

However, if you have to do a real shopping to complete your New Wardrobe, we will be your Personal Shopper and provide you with relevant tips on what you should be purchased

                                       

So when you are ready for your transformation, 

I will be a call away....

Happy New year ...... 

Let's get dressed for Success....

It's your year to shine....

You got this....

Putri Hidayat

IG : @meand_mylooks