Minggu, 13 Oktober 2024



 





What to do to look taller

Dalam berbusana, kita ingin menampilkan sisi terbaik dari diri kita. Untuk itu kita memerluka trik-trik yang dapat membantu menampilkan ilusi yang akan membuat kita terlihat lebih baik. Ilusi yang paling sering dibicarakan adalah bagaimana terlihat lebih tinggi, karena ukuran badan yang tinggi akan terlihat lebih baik saat memakai hampir semua disain dan ukuran baju.

Walaupun demikian, tidak berarti kita panik kalau badan kita tidak sesuai dengan standard umum seseorang yang tinggi. Berbadan tidak tinggi bisa menjadi terlihat lebih tinggi. Tidak melalu Operasi Aestetik, tetapi dengan beberapa trik yang dapat dipelajari dan dibiasakan untuk diterapkan


Let's dive in.... bagaimana supaya KELIHATAH lebih tinggi.























Semoga tulisan ini bisa membantu. Dan bila ada pertanyaan, silakan DM ke IG : @meand_mylooks yang mana saya akan personally menjawab pertanyaan yang diberikan.

Sampai jumpa di Post berikutnya....


Stay Stylish and Be Happy...

Putri Hidayat
@Meand_mylooks



Jumat, 17 Mei 2024

Ellegance is an Attitude

 


Elegance is an Attitude



So very true.... Elegance is an attitude... It's more than just a physical appearances. It's a complete package of Beauty, Brain and Behaviour.

The way you treat people, your courtesy and compassions as well as your passion to learn new things and share your knowledge to others....  all counts when you want to call be called Elegant Lady...

What about " Not Elegant " ? .... well, just restraint of doing the following things....









See you later.....


Putri Hidayat
@meand_mylooks
May 2024


Kamis, 16 Mei 2024

Dude's Smart Casual Style

 



Dude's Smart Casual Style 





Smart Casual Style is for you who wants to elevate your look, without being overboard. It's not a BUSINESS CASUAL outfit. Keep reading, if you want to know what is the difference between Smart Casual and Business Casual.

When you are attending a Social Function and the dress code is SMART CASUAL, try to find out more about the event, so that you will not be wearing a " too casual " outfit, and you will feel underdressed compare with the other guests. In many cases it's better to be Overdressed than Underdressed. 

Let's dive-in and find out more about Smart Casual Style...




There are 4 important PIECES for SMART CASUAL Style, namely :
Less Structured Blazer, Button Down Shirt, Smart Trousers and Smart Shoes

I will go one by one .....


BLAZER is a " Must-Have " pieces for Smart Casual Style.
It could be in block colors or with patterns ie pinstripes or plaid.

Blazers should be neither in the same color nor in the same material with the Pants, to give a casual vibes but still looking smart.

Blazer in lighter colors ie Beige Colors or Ivory color, have the more casual vibes than the dark ones


Blazer for Smart Casual Style is not only in Single Breasted style, but could also be in Double Breasted style.

Unlike SUITS Jakcket, Less Structured BLAZER has less padding. The Structured Suits Jacket creates a more formal look, whereby Blazer exudes more relaxed and casual vibes.


BUTTON DOWN SHIRT, is a shirt that has small buttons in the collar to keep it in place. It will make a sharper looks when you layer it with a Blazer.

It could be in block colors or patterns. Long Sleeves or Short Sleeves

As option you could also wear POLO SHIRT, TURTLE NECK, MANDARIN Collar, or the most Casual is the Crew Neck T- shirt under your Blazer


The best SMART PANTS for Smart Casual style is CHINOS. It is made of TWILL material that ooze more casual vibes than pants made of WOOL material, but more smart than JEANS pants. It is available in many colors to suit your mood and style.

If you really want to wear jeans in your Smart Casual Outfit, opt for Dark Wash Jeans, to create the Smarter Look than other type of Jeans.


The SMART SHOES for Smart Casual Style are LOAFERS ( Tassel or Penny Loafers ). You might want to wear it without socks, an option if the events is more casual than smart. 

You can also wear BROGUES or CHELSEA BOOTH. Shoes in Tan or Brown or lighter colors are more casual than the darker ones. You can also wear LOW TOP SMART CASUAL Sneakers in your Smart Casual Combo, if your are attending more casual events.


BUSINESS CASUAL attire is not a FORMAL BUSINESS attire, where you have to wear a suits jacket with a matching pants. It is more casual, but it's still conventional in a way. The suits jacket is not necessarily matching with the pants, but it's a tailored pants ( not jeans ), you should be wearing a normal tie, light color shirts, smart shoes, no sneakers.

Unlike Smart Casual the preferred colors of the Business Casual will be darker conservative colors such as Navy Blue or Greay.

So, the option is more limited than the option in Smart Casual attire.



The Smart Casual Style is for you who would like to express yourself with the way you dress up to impress without going overboard

Colorful Pocket Square or Lapel Pin are 2 accessories that could be used for accents in Smart Casual Combo

You can explore your Smart Casual style with different colors of Blazer, Chinos, Shirt and Shoes to create a casual but smart looks

With option to wear sport jacket in Smart Casual Combo, it gives this style a more versatile outfits and a forever favorites for Stylish Dudes.

Some ideas for Smart Casual Getups





























See you in my next write up....


PUTRI HIDAYAT
@meand_mylooks
Jakarta, May 2024










Minggu, 05 Mei 2024



                                                                                 



   French CHIC 

Welll... as you can see.... am not a French Woman .... although sometimes I wish I was one ..... simply for the reasons that they always know how to carry themselves so elegantly and looking so Chic. Have you notice this ?

CHIC is actually more than just about your looks or appearance and I will explain to you on my next write up....

BUT in this one, I want to share with you on how French Women always looks so CHIC... I adore them.

I've tried to find information on this subject and luckily I found a Youtube from a FRENCH Lady, by the name of Marie Ann LeCoeur. She is a Personal Stylist and also book writer. Her Best Selling book in Amazon is " How to be Chic and Elegant " in case you want to read it...

In this post, I would like to share with you her advise on how to be Chic à la French Ladies, that based on the following habit from these Ladies

So, Let's Dive-in my friends....



There are 5 Rules or Guideliness on how to be Chic the French Women's Way. These Rules are easy to follow and hopefully it could be incorporated in your daily habits if you are interested. 

The FIRST RULE : DRESS UP TO YOUR BODY SHAPE. French Women make efforts to get familiar with their respective Body Shapes. This is imperative as the basic knowledge to be Chic and to dress up elegantly. There are 5 women's body shapes namely : Apple Body Shape, Pear Body Shape, Inverted Triangle, Rectangle and Hourglass Body shape. Each has its own characteristic and when we are familiar with the characteristic of our Body Shape, we could learn how to dressed it up to look Chic and Elegant.

French Women do not like to complicate their outfits. They prefer to have simple pieces. For examples : They like to wear monochrome colors. They prefer to have Solid Colors over Prints. And if they choose prints, they rather have simple Prints over the busy Prints. Etc.

THE 3RD RULE goes hand in hand with THE 2ND RULE. In order to keep their Outfit Simple, they need to apply the concept of LESS IS MORE. 

Our purpose of Dressing-up is to Show Off our assets. We might want to show off our beautiful neck and shoulder, our waist, or long legs etc. Therefore, we could not wear too much pieces or too busy colors in our outfit that will distract people's attention and overlook the assets that we would like to showing off.

Therefore, simple Cut & Design for the Outfit, will be better. Do not wear to much accessories and opt for simple pattern design over the busy ones, or avoid too many colors in an outfit

French women will have a statement in their outfit as an accent to their overall looks. But... only One... in accordance to the concept of LESS IS MORE ... to keep it simple and compelling.

French Women's closet do not keep many things inside. They believe in the concept of QUALITY OVER QUANTITY. They prefer to have FEWER good Quality pieces, rather than MANY lower quality pieces.

Their closet looks tidy, manageable, cohesive, with the pieces that easily be mixed and matched in high rotation.

The high quality pieces will make us looks much better than the lower quality pieces and this will create more confidence in the way we carry ourselves.

And definitely, the high quality will be more lasting than the lower one.



The 3 Color's rule simply means not to combine more than 3 colors in your outfit at any one time.

This rule goes hand in hand with KEEP IT SIMPLE and LESS IS MORE rules that if we follow these rules, it makes the colors blend in harmony and you will be looking more Chic and Elegant.




Ines De La Fressange was a prominent International Model of the late 80s who was signing an exclusive contract with CHANEL during the era of Karl Lagerfeld, due to her resemblance in her appearance to Madam Coco Chanel. 

She has a number of interesting quotes supporting the French Chic guidelines. And obviously some quotes from Madam Coco Chanel herself who was a true believer of simplicity.

Ladies, I hope you will enjoy this write up and learn something from it...

Be happy and be kind to one another....


Thank you for Reading

See you on my Next Write up



Rabu, 24 April 2024





HOW TO BE AN AWESOME DUDE  AND BE THE FAVORITES OF THE GIRLS

Have you ever met a Dude who is not conventionally handsome, but always  have girls nearby who love to be having him around ?

This Dude seems to be the Favorite of the Girls...

His Personality is the reason why these girls are attracted to him, it draws them to him like Honey attracting Bees buzzing around it.

How his personality creates this strong attraction and it's beyond a mere looks... 
In this post I will tell you what is behind his personality and hopefully it will inspire you... It's simple really ....... 💕







Girls adore well mannered Dude,  who spread positive energy, kind,  supportive and never talk harshly. Dudes with integrity.  He respect the Girls and as a Gentleman, he thought that the girls deserve to be treated nicely. However, when he needs to be firmed somehow, he does it in a nice way



He is not only communicating with the Girls but he tries to understand what's important to them and why and will respect it accordingly. He also respect boundaries that have been set up by the girls and this makes them feel comfortable around him.



Girls are creatures who love to talk. Therefore, they love to have Dudes who genuinely listens to them
It's not only as good listener but as an active listener  as well where Dudes can give valued remarks that will inspire or provide solutions to the Girl's issues.


Why Girls love Dudes who are knowledgable and broad minded ? Girls adores Dudes whom they can  have great conversations with. Someone who will be able to cover many interesting topics and make the conversation far from boring. In addition to that a Broad minded Dudes are not Judgmental type of person and it makes the Girls comfortable around them.




It will be a perfect combo if Dudes are not only knowledgeable but also have a great Sense of Humour. Girls love this. Humor will always sparks some fun, an ice breaking and get rid of awkward moments during conversations.




It's the first impression kind of thing.... before everything else, the way Dudes present themselves to the world is important. AT LEAST they should be taking care of their Grooming and Hygiene. If they have Great sense of Style it will be perfect. Girls love Dudes who smells great too.... so dab a bit of Men Fragrance. Remember, NOT TOO MUCH... just a bit, to be more impactful and give a mystery vibes to your present.

So Dudes, when you ready to be popular amongst Girls, be a mature person, treats the Girls with respect. There will be moments when some Girls are obsessed with you. You can't avoid this situation when you are popular amongst Girls. And it can be annoying sometimes. But you have to be ready. Always be a cool headed Dudes.  Be firmed but always respect and treat them nicely. 


CIAO and let me know if you need assistances

IG : @meand_mylooks
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April 2024